In this mini series post I'm going to be showing you how to improve personality and communication skills. I wrote a book about the subject and I want to share a few secrets with you. I want to show you how to improve your personality and communication skills over this series. Bookmark this site and come to it every now and then as I share theses personality and communication skills
I’ve always been a guy who’s observed from afar. What I’m about to share with you isn’t new. It was first developed by William Moulton Marston, who lived about a hundred years ago, and people have been working off his ideas ever since. I was introduced to this by a friend and ever since then, I’ve not stopped thinking about it. My aim in this book is to help you understand people better & interact with people easier. This book is designed not only to help you understand others but also to give you key strategies to help you change in those areas that may make you difficult to deal with.
How To Improve Personality and Communication Skills
Personality Tests Are Not So reliable
There are a lot of personality tests out there that people take and get great results. However doing the same test twice will more than likely give you a different result. My experience has been that people change over time, and depending on their mood, they react differently. So, instead of classifying a person in a box, I theorize that if we understand how people work, personality wise, we can work with our personalities and others in a real time basis.
Having said that, it is possible to workout roughly what a person is like through observation over a period of time. Through practice and studying personality types it is possible to get a reading and know what type of person you dealing with. Tests offer a different type of analysis because they try to pin down exactly what type of person you are. This is not helpful at all because as I stated earlier, moods can alter reactions in various situations. If you are taking a test and while you’re doing so feel depressed, it can have a very different result if say you take it again and feel over-whelmed with excitement.
Taking one day at a time, and observing people, we can interact and understand why people do what they do. It just isn’t enough to know what type of personality someone is and then expect them to do exactly as you think they should. People are not robots and everyone is unique.
Before you say “But hey, I thought everyone is an individual”, let me explain…
There is a general blue print of behavior in personalities. People react instinctively almost on a subconscious level. Over time, Marston (and others) have picked up that we humans behave in a certain way most of the time. The difference is we grow and mature and teach ourselves to behave appropriately. That’s just life. Behavior Analysis is art more than science. So please find a quiet place to read and join me as we discover the behavior patterns of your friends and yourself….
Part 2 will follow tomorrow…. Over the next few months I will release more of my book to give you an glimpse into it. If you like what you read please buy a copy. You can comment in the section below if you want. I hope you have enjoyed this first part in how to improve personality and communication skills
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